How to Support Your Child’s 11+ Journey at Home
Preparing for the 11+ can feel like a big task, but with the right support at home, it can also be an exciting and rewarding journey.
At Maidstone Learning Centre, we believe that parents play a vital role not by teaching everything, but by creating the right environment for learning and confidence to grow.
Here are some simple but powerful ways you can support your child through the 11+ process.
- Create a Calm and Consistent Routine
Children thrive on structure.
Set up a regular homework and revision schedule that balances practice with plenty of downtime.
Key tips:
- Short, regular sessions are more effective than long, stressful ones
- Stick to set start and finish times where possible
- Build in regular breaks and rewards to keep motivation high
Consistency builds good habits and good habits build success.
- Focus on Encouragement, Not Pressure
It’s natural to want your child to do their best, but too much pressure can lead to anxiety and frustration.
Instead:
- Celebrate effort, not just results
- Praise perseverance, even when things are tricky
- Help your child see mistakes as part of the learning process
A calm, positive atmosphere makes it easier for your child to stay motivated and confident.
- Practise Exam Skills Little and Often
At-home practice should focus on:
- Timed exercises (to build speed and stamina)
- Reading comprehension activities
- Mental maths challenges
- Reasoning puzzles and games
Remember: it’s about practising the skills, not doing endless test papers
- Keep Communication Open
Talk regularly with your child about how they’re feeling.
Simple questions like:
- “What part of your work today felt easiest?”
- “Was there anything that felt tricky?”
- “What are you proud of this week?”
These conversations build trust and give you insight into how to best support them day-to-day.
- Look After Wellbeing
Don’t forget the basics:
- Plenty of sleep
- Healthy meals
- Time for play and relaxation
- Keeping the 11+ in perspective
A well-rested, happy child is far better equipped to perform at their best.
We’re Here to Support You Too
At Maidstone Learning Centre, we work with families to make the 11+ journey as positive and successful as possible.
From regular feedback to practical strategies you can use at home, we’re here every step of the way.
Want to learn more about our 11+ support programmes?
Contact us today to arrange a free consultation or taster session